We’re all bombarded on the daily with messages about what we “should” be. From that one bossy relative who’s always pointing out your so-called flaws to the influencer with the seemingly perfect skin (and life), it feels like we’re always hearing about what’s wrong with us and what needs fixing. It’s hard not to wish we could just be… well, better.
But what if you don’t need to optimize yourself? Trust us (or if you can’t trust us, trust the cosmos): there’s nothing wrong with you! That doesn’t mean there’s no room for growth, of course. Just remember that your job isn’t to fit anyone else’s standards, but to lean into what makes you you.
Read on for affirmations designed specifically for your sign. (Don’t forget to read both your sun and your rising sign for the full picture!)
Aries
Other people’s dramas do not have to become my problem.
You’re much more empathetic than you’re often given credit for, Aries. Just because you’re bold and fun, that doesn’t mean you don’t have a heart! And even for someone as independent as you, it’s possible to get sucked into your friends’ dramas. You start imagining everyone else’s feelings are somehow your responsibility, and ultimately take on an emotional load that’s just way too heavy. Remember: sometimes, maintaining healthy boundaries is the most compassionate thing you can do.
Taurus
I make choices from a place of confidence, not fear.
It’s easy for anyone to get caught up in life’s negatives—but it’s especially easy for you, Taurus. You find yourself focusing on the things that have gone wrong, the mistakes you’ve made, the ways life didn’t turn out how you expected. But when you dwell too much on the bad, you never really give yourself permission to take risks, get messy, and live your life! And, after all, the truth is that you’re much more powerful than you give yourself credit for. You’re a catch! Don’t forget it!
Gemini
Self-love is my superpower.
You’re one of the most sociable signs in the zodiac, Gemini. You’re fun, charming, and genuinely interested in the world around you. From longtime friends to strangers you start chatting with in the grocery store, people simply adore you! Just remember that life isn’t all about giving other people what they want from you. Sometimes, you’ve got to focus on you. If you treat yourself with care and focus on your own desires every once in a while, it’ll open new doors.
Cancer
My intuition is sharp, and I trust it to guide me.
Are you psychic, Cancer, or just incredible at picking up on unspoken cues? Honestly, it doesn’t really matter. Either way, your intuition is so powerful that it’s almost scary. If you’re drawn to somebody new—or, on the contrary, getting a weird vibe off someone—there’s a reason for it. The problem is that, even when you’re 100% right, it’s still so easy for self-doubt to creep in. Yes, listening to other people’s opinions is good, but you’ll be amazed at what happens if you stop second-guessing your intuition. Trust your instincts.
Leo
I support my community, and I let them support me in return.
There’s nothing that feels sweeter than being a hero, Leo. You absolutely live for those moments when you can swoop in and save the day. Sure, partly it’s because you like the recognition, but it’s mostly because you care deeply about your friends and want to help when you can. Just remember that it’s a two-way street! Don’t be too proud to lean on others when you could use a hand. Asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness—it’s just what humans do.
Virgo
I deserve all the good things coming to me (and more!)
Imposter syndrome is practically your middle name, Virgo. When something wonderful happens to you, or when you get positive attention for all your achievements, your first thought is to worry you don’t really deserve it. But listen up: it’s time to get over that! You work hard. Why shouldn’t other people recognize that? Quit imagining you need to be absolutely 100% perfect to deserve anything good. You’re wonderful! Accept it already!
Libra
I’m not afraid to take risks.
If there’s one thing you hate, Libra, it’s being thrown off-balance. The world’s chaotic enough as it is—anything you can do to stabilize your life a bit, you will. But sometimes, annoying as it is, growth requires uncertainty and discomfort. In order to arrive at the life you really want (and deserve!), you’ve got to put up with a bit of unpredictability along the way. Don’t be scared. You’re more than prepared for this. Take a risk or two! You never know what magic might happen!
Scorpio
I’m open to other perspectives, but I’m grounded in my own truth.
We say this with love, Scorpio, but sometimes your mindset can be a little… well, rigid. It’s not necessarily a bad thing—it means you’re passionate about what you believe in! But sometimes, other people’s ideas are valuable. Perspectives other than your own might actually be helpful if you took the time to listen. You don’t have to take everybody’s feedback on board—as if you would—but if you approached it all with an open mind, you might be surprised by how much you could learn.
Sagittarius
I’m part of a team: I don’t have to do it all on my own.
You’re super independent, Sagittarius, and depending on the day, it can be a superpower or a curse. Doing everything on your own gets a little lonely, and it makes you forget how wonderful it feels to be part of something bigger than yourself. Other people care about you a lot, and they’re usually more than happy to work alongside you. See how much farther you get when you work as part of a team, not as a lone wolf.
Capricorn
My hard work will be rewarded in time, even if I feel overlooked right now.
Some people are self-effacing, willing to work hard simply for the pleasure of a job well done. Not you, Capricorn! Sure, the joy of a job well done is nice and all, but what’s wrong with wanting to actually get some credit for your contributions? Don’t give up if it feels like your hard work is going unnoticed (because, trust us, it’s not.) The universe has amazing things in store for you, so keep going.
Aquarius
I’m allowed to change my mind (and then change it again!)
One thing about you, Aquarius, is that you know how to make a decision and stick to it. Once you’ve settled on a course of action or made up your mind about somebody (for better or for worse!), well, that’s it. Case closed. Most of the time, this works for you—your initial instincts are usually solid! But sometimes, the situation changes, you learn new information, or your desires evolve. Remember that you’re allowed to re-evaluate things! Adapting to new circumstances is often the strongest, wisest thing you can do.
Pisces
I gratefully accept care and support from others.
You’re one of the most generous signs in the zodiac, Pisces, always ready to share your time, your resources, and your love. It’s a beautiful way to be, and the world would probably be better if more people followed your example. Just remember that it isn’t your job to be “selfless” and put your own needs last every time. You matter, too! You’re a human being with dreams and desires of your own. You deserve support and kindness just as much as anybody else does! So let others be generous with you every once in a while, too.