Sometimes, summer really is everything it’s cracked up to be: cute outfits, flirting at the pool, hot girl antics! Other times, though, you come down with a bad case of the summertime sadness. If you’re feeling just a little moody, well, join the club. It’s Cancer season, after all, and the feelings are intense.
If we’re being honest, it can be sort of fun—The crushes are so deep! The yearning is so bittersweet!—but at a certain point, the moping around gets old. Nobody can live in their dreams full-time: you’re alive right now, and it’s up to you to make the most of it.
We’ve put together affirmations designed for your specific sign (pro-tip: read your sun and rising!) to give you a boost this summer. Read on.
Aries
No matter what happens, I can always rely on my inner strength.
You’re one of the toughest characters around, Aries—you’ll never run away from a fight, and your friends know that if they need someone to have their back, you’re the person to call. But when times get tough and you’re knocked down one too many times, even you can get discouraged. Just remember all that you’ve already done: you’re an absolute dynamo, and nothing can keep you down for long. Dig deep, and you’ll find all the bravery and heard you need to get back up and keep fighting.
Taurus
I am open to new connections.
We’re not saying that you’re resistant to change, Taurus—okay, maybe we are saying that, at least a little bit. Your steadfastness and consistency are some of the best things about you! But they can also hold you back from letting wonderful new people and possibilities into your life. Remember that change isn’t all bad. If you open your heart to the unexpected and trust yourself to navigate the unfamiliar, you’ll be amazed by how beautiful life can become.
Gemini
I prioritize the people who make me feel good about myself.
You, Gemini, are the sort of person who can see the best in just about anyone. You’re able to make new friends wherever you go—honestly, it’s kind of a superpower. Sometimes, your vast network of friends and crushes and acquaintances can stretch you a little thin. So many people to see and so little time! Remember that you’re allowed to prioritize. You don’t have to go to every single event you’re invited to, and you don’t have to become besties with everyone you meet. It’s okay to focus on the ones you care about most.
Cancer
I confidently take up the space I need.
“Cancers are so nurturing!” is kind of a stereotype…but it’s also kind of true. And it’s a wonderful thing! The world could use more people who actually care about others. But you sometimes get so wrapped up in others that forget that you need to care for yourself, too. You’re a human being, and you have needs of your own! Stop putting yourself last all the time: you deserve to be cared for, to take up space, to make your own needs known.
Leo
I work hard, and my efforts are paying off.
You’re an incredibly hard worker, Leo, even if other people don’t always recognize this about you. (You’re just so funny and charming that you make it all look easy!) But it’s hard to stay motivated when you can’t quite see where all your work is leading. You’re not the type to be satisfied by work for its own sake—you want to see results! So look around, and you will see that it’s paying off even now. Maybe the progress isn’t happening as quickly as you like, but it’s still happening. Keep at it.
Virgo
I don’t have to be for everyone: the people who get it, get it.
It’s a hard pill to swallow, Virgo, but you’re never going to be loved by everybody in the world. Nobody is! It just isn’t possible! So stop trying to impress the people who aren’t on your wavelength, the people who you don’t even like. When you give yourself permission to do what you really care about—regardless of how you think others might react—then you make it possible for the right people to find you.
Libra
I ask for what I need, even when it’s scary.
If there was an award for being good at picking up on social cues, Libra, you’d probably win it. You’re so attuned to social dynamics and nonverbal communication that you sometimes seem kind of psychic. But if you wait for other people to detect your moods, needs, and unspoken desires, you’ll probably end up waiting forever. Sometimes, the only way to get what you want is to straight up ask for it. Sure, people might say no—but they might also deliver exactly what you’ve been hoping for.
Scorpio
I have faith in myself and my abilities.
People sometimes find you intimidating, Scorpio, because you’re absolutely fearless. You’re smart and perceptive and willing to question everyone and everything: even yourself. But while it’s good to put your own actions and motivations under the microscope every so often, do it too intensely and you open the door to crushing self-doubt. Cut yourself a little slack! You’re wise and observant, and there’s nothing in the world you can’t handle. Have a little more faith in yourself.
Sagittarius
I am courageous in the face of change.
Compared to most people, Sagittarius, you’re pretty comfortable with change. Thanks to your intrepid spirit, you’re always up for an adventure. Almost always, anyway. Even you get intimidated and lose your nerve sometimes (you’d hardly be human if you didn’t!). But even in the toughest times, your courage is still waiting for you, just beneath the surface. When you’re stressed or worried, just remember how much you’ve already experienced, how much you’ve learned. This is nothing you can’t handle.
Capricorn
I deserve to feel truly seen in my relationships.
Capricorn, Capricorn, Capricorn: in relationships, you can be a real tough nut to crack! You’re strong, self-sufficient, and usually pretty slow to let your guard down. Your caution isn’t a bad thing! Just remember that you deserve genuine intimacy, even if it takes a while to develop. You don’t have to settle for love that leaves you feeling lonely or misunderstood. There are people out there who will understand you and love you for exactly who are.
Aquarius
I’m strong enough to change.
We say this with love, Aquarius, but you can be a bit…well, stubborn! Most of the time, this is a good thing: it means you move with integrity, never trying to be anyone other than yourself. You know what you like, and you stick to it. Occasionally, though, you start to get bored or restless, and you wish your life were different. Well, good news: it can be! You’re capable of growth and change, just like anyone else—be brave and take the first step.
Pisces
I am loved and appreciated for exactly who I am.
You’re one of the most reflective and emotionally intelligent signs in the zodiac, Pisces. This sounds like a great thing, and most of the time it is, but sometimes it means you see your own flaws just a little too clearly. You’re way too hard on yourself! Remember that the people in your life don’t care about you in spite of your personality—they care about you because you’re you. Sure, we all have our issues, but don’t imagine that you need to change your fundamental identity to be worthy of love.